How to Build Your Daughter’s Self Confidence
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Did you know that 52% of girls feel that the negative posts, comments, snaps, videos or photos they see on social media damage their confidence*? Let’s face it, there are a ton of trolls out there that have nothing better to do than put others down due to their own self confidence issues. Sadly, the internet is a playground full of mean people, but the folks at Dove want to change that. By posting positive advice online, it will be the start of making social media a more positive place for all.
For the last 16 years, I have been a Dove consumer, and have enjoyed all the new products they have produced over the years. Dove was the first brand of deodorant I trusted, and they made my favorite smelling soap. Now, as a mom I LOVE not only their HBC products, but also the message of self love they promote. Their goal to increase positivity and self love among the female population, really strikes a cord with me now that I have two young daughters.
That is why I wanted to reiterate just how important it is to build your daughter’s self confidence up if you have one. It is really actually quite simple and a lot of it has to do with removing the word “BUT” from your language.
For example, never praise your daughter follow by the word but. “Oh, your hair looks nice today, BUT your shirt is too tight.” Making a comment like this raises your child up, and then quickly tears them back down.
Another example I hear frequently is: You got a good grade today in Science, BUT you could have done better in math. I admit, I was guilty of saying something similar to that. However, I’ve seen for myself just how detrimental it was to my daughter’s spirit. Now, with encouragement and praise I see her doing better than ever across the board.
Never setting a limit to what your daughter can do is also crucial. If she wants to try out gymnastics and you have the funds go for it. Don’t ever allow yourself to doubt her because in turn she too will grow self doubt.
Be sure to support the positive hobbies she loves–even if it is something as obscure as collecting rocks. :)
Always encourage your child to help out to make a difference in other’s lives. It will help her to be a more content person with so much confidence and a kind soul.
Lastly, remember that you are your daughter’s BIGGEST role model. Take it as a complement if she wants to be just like you but keep in my she will be a direct reflection of you. Be the best you, you can be and #SpeakBeautiful to your child to set a positive and nurturing example.
Be sure to head to BJ’s Wholesale to stock up on Dove HBC products for your family. They are gentle, moisturizing, and when you support this brand, you help support the #SpeakBeautiful movement.
The folks at BJ’s have put together a uplifting resource to help young women across America’s self confidence. Check it out here.
*Dove: #SpeakBeautiful Girls Research” March 2016
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Jeanette
October 11, 2016 at 12:54 pmI love that Dove has been doing this for so long! I wish more places would do stuff like this. It gives SUCH a positive message!
Brett Beyer
October 11, 2016 at 3:03 pmI read a book entitled “Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters” and it was all about building the strength of your daughters so that their self-confidence comes naturally.
I honestly believe that the greatest gift I have ever been given was my daughter, and making her proud of herself was always my biggest priority.
Kelly Hutchinson
October 11, 2016 at 3:06 pmWe work very hard to build my daughter’s confidence up. She is a bit overweight and has been teased a lot in school. It takes a lot of work to reverse that.
Stacie
October 11, 2016 at 6:03 pmWhat a positive message Dove is supporting. I never thought of how a little word like “but” could have such a huge effect. I have 2 daughters that I hope have the self-confidence to get them what they want out of life.
Tara
October 11, 2016 at 6:05 pmI have always liked what Dove has stood for. With so much meanness and bullying on the internet it makes it so much more important to help young girls feel confident about themselves.
gingermommyrants
October 11, 2016 at 7:42 pmI have been using Dove products for years. I think it is so important to build up your child’s self esteem. I love all the campaigns Dove has.
Tammi Roy
October 11, 2016 at 7:43 pmIt is so important to raise confident kids. Dove has amazing products. I love that they focus on building girls confidence.
Ann Bacciaglia
October 11, 2016 at 7:45 pmThis is a fantastic campaign by Dove. They have amazing products to keep your skin soft and moisturized.
Robin Rue
October 11, 2016 at 8:20 pmThis is such a great message. Young girls need all the confidence builders they can get so that they can grow into strong women!
Reesa Lewandowski
October 11, 2016 at 8:21 pmDove products have definitely stepped it up. We use them in our house and this campaign is one that is near to my heart as I grew up with low self esteem. I hope I am building my daughter’s confidence in herself the best that I can.
Seattle Travel Blogger
October 11, 2016 at 8:28 pmThis is an important topic.
You deliver an excellent message here.
Melanie
October 11, 2016 at 8:30 pmgreat post and totally made my day. I’ve been thinking about how to make my daughter feel better the last few weeks and this came in perfect timing, thanks for sharing.
Diana Rambles
October 11, 2016 at 8:40 pmBuilding my daughter’s confidence and self-esteem is of utmost importance to me. I want to empower her to be a strong woman.
Claudia Krusch
October 11, 2016 at 9:40 pmWe work very hard to build my son’s confidence up. He is a bit overweight and has been teased in the past. I love that Dove helps spread the message that each and every girl is beautiful!
Tania
October 11, 2016 at 9:43 pmI love this message! I am the mom of 5 girls, and words affect them deeply. This is a good reminder to get rid of my “buts!”
Kathy
October 11, 2016 at 9:47 pmThis is such a great post! I have two daughters, so I know how this can go. It’s such an important topic too. Everyone should be able to be very confident.
Chelley @ A is For Adelaide
October 11, 2016 at 11:35 pmI LOVE this campaign. Dove has been doing so much for women, and I love that they’ve branched to our daughters.
Jennifer
October 12, 2016 at 12:25 amThis post is awesome! It is so important to build up confidence from a young age or it may never fully develop. I am so pleased with Dove’s fantastic campaigns and the difference it has made.
Liz Mays
October 12, 2016 at 10:42 pmI absolutely love what Dove does to empower our girls. And I REALLY love that they continue to do this year after year.